In Hawaii and title waive took me by surprise, in a safe building but then it came there. Took a boat to the mainland and called ex husband while another guy wanted to date me but I’m married
This dream appears to be a complex collection of subconscious thoughts and emotions. It is possible that the dream is a representation of feeling caught off-guard and unprepared for unexpected situations in your waking life.
Being in Hawaii and experiencing a tidal wave suggests that you may feel overwhelmed and unable to control a situation, as if a 'wave' of change is coming that you may not be ready for. The 'safe building' you were in could mean that you trust in the safety and stability of your current environment, but the tidal wave still managed to reach you. This may indicate potential difficulties or upheavals in your life that you may feel are out of your control.
Taking a boat to the mainland may represent a desire to escape the situation or environment that is causing you stress and uncertainty. The fact that you called your ex-husband suggests that you may be seeking support from past relationships, or perhaps feeling nostalgic for a time when you felt more secure.
The presence of another man who wanted to date you despite your marital status may symbolize temptations that you are struggling with, or a fear of being propositioned in your waking life. This man represents a potential diversion from your current relationship, even though you are not interested in pursuing anything with him.
Overall, this dream may be an indication of feeling uncertain and overwhelmed by changes or challenges in your life, and a desire to seek comfort in familiar relationships. It may be helpful to analyze what is causing you stress and anxiety in your waking life, and consider seeking support from trusted sources.